Raising Strong Girls: 88 Acts of Independence and Adventure


Recently, a friend told me I have six more summers with my daughter.

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Six summers until we are outfitting my girl’s dorm room. Six summers until the world calls her an adult. Six summers until my girl no longer bounces around our house chomping on sour cream and chive potato chips.


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Really, how can this be? I just delivered the girl once a schedule gave birth last week, and the doctors and nurses told my husband and I we could take our baby girl home from the hospital. We thought it was an insane idea. I mean, hello, we just met the kid, and we didn’t know anything about babies. We put our girl in a very uncomfortable (but extremely adorable) outfit. We fumbled with the dreaded, fifty-pound bucket seat, and then we slowly drove forty-five miles an hour and headed home.

“What are we supposed to do now?” I wondered aloud.

My husband shrugged, and we decided to go to Burger King. I ordered onion rings, and that is the last thing I remember, onion rings.

Now, I only have six more summers with my beauty, the one who is all legs and full of endless stories and high-pitched giggles.

The one who forces me to open my eyes wide and sip each day slowly.

And it was this thought which prompted me to think about Raising Strong Girls: 88 Acts of Independence and Adventure

Our family has loads of unscheduled summer lounging in our future (trust me, we dominate spending time together in a nonstructured way), but I also want to be intentional with my girl. 

My girl and I made this list for you. It is a list promoting independence and adventure. This list longs to hang on your refrigerator. Go ahead, and take down the school lunch menu, and you will have the perfect spot for it (scroll down, and you can print it off because it is also a snazzy printable).

This list contains 88 acts of adventure and independence for girls. It includes perfect ways to spend time together, starting points for conversations, ideas for battling the beast of boredom, and reminders for our girls to play hard. Plus, if your girl is anything like mine, she loves a good checklist, and her little adventurous self can check off items as she goes.

88 Acts of Independence and Adventure

  1. Understand how to use a circuit breaker
  2. Learn to code
  3. Tread water
  4. Determine if someone has a fever
  5. Identify editable flowers
  6. Create a short film
  7. Read a book in one day
  8. Catch a baseball
  9. Make a slingshot
  10. Rock climb
  11. Design a website
  12. Identify local trees
  13. Iron
  14. Create an outdoor fort
  15. Check the oil in a car
  16. Throw a Frisbee
  17. Memorize Scripture
  18. Throw a baseball
  19. Sew a button
  20. Make an obstacle course
  21. Play Jacks
  22. Paddleboard
  23. Understand how-to consume information online (in a healthy way!)
  24. Design a kite that really flies
  25. Make jam
  26. Mow the grass
  27. Learn to use a hammer
  28. Catch a frog
  29. Complete a 1000 piece puzzle
  30. Climb a tree
  31. Run a 5K
  32. Drive a boat
  33. Make bread
  34. Volunteer
  35. Bake a cake from scratch
  36. Grow vegetables
  37. Learn two jump rope songs
  38. Build a zipline
  39. Play football
  40. Come up with a catchphrase
  41. Build a fire
  42. Learn how-to mind map
  43. Kayak
  44. Say no
  45. Learn a new language
  46. Chop wood
  47. Sew curtains
  48. Make a candle
  49. Design and build a mini-waterpark
  50. Put a chain on a bicycle
  51. Pitch a tent
  52. Paint a room
  53. Create a budget
  54. Reupholster a chair
  55. Study bees
  56. Use a rope swing to jump into a lake
  57. Write a poem
  58. Read a map
  59. Handwrite a two-page letter
  60. Learn basic substitutions for cooking
  61. Learn how to treat minor burns
  62. Start a rock collection
  63. Invent something new
  64. Take a class
  65. Do a handstand in the lake
  66. Learn to ride a horse
  67. Stand up for a friend
  68. Play a musical instrument
  69. Treat a minor cut
  70. Learn to skateboard
  71. Identify poison ivy
  72. Hang a swing in a tree
  73. Put a chain back on a bike
  74. Read a book over 100 years old
  75. Inflate a flat bike tire
  76. Cook over a campfire
  77. Speak in front of a group
  78. Ride a bike no-handed
  79. Write a book
  80. Jump a car
  81. Play hopscotch
  82. Design a video game
  83. Attend a rally
  84. Ride a skateboard
  85. Hike a mountain
  86. Read the Bible
  87. Try out for something
  88. Ask for help when you need it

And here’s the fun news! If you want a copy of our list, it’s yours (Strong Girls Can: 88 Acts of Independence and Adventure). Should you want to create your own Raising Strong Girls list instead, do it!

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Here’s to summer, strong moms, and strong girls!


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Amy L. Sullivan. Determined dreamer. Fan of early mornings, dangly earrings, and the underdog. Author of Gutsy Girls: Strong Christian Women Who Impacted the World. Find her at AmyLSullivan.com.

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